I'm about to finish DR. kinda hard to track down one here.
In Malaysia, if one doesn't show up in court in 6months after filling the joint divorce petition, the judge will consider the divorce null and void. Or the L could inform the judge of the change in mind. So it's not over till the fat lady sings.
Yes it does gets confusing. I have much respect for your insight and your decision. I wish the best for yourself too.
M35 XW34 D5 D4 M 6years T 10years Bomb 5/2013 Joint Petition signed 6/2013 Moved out end of 8/2013 Court Hearing of Joint Petition 9/2013 D finalized in 3 months - no news yet