Sounds like i should draw the line. No more OM in the house nor taking the girls out. Tell her its an EA? Tell her she can go if she wants to but leave my kids alone? That'll be pushing her away, wouldn't it? I asked her to put herself in my shoe and she had no answer. Talking about feelings is a sure enough recipe for disaster.
Lines were drawn previously and i didn't enforce it enough. I backed away. What's the end result is going to be like?
Anyway, she's gonna resist. Putting up with cold stares is just killing me. The longer she continues with her attitude, the more out-of-love i feel towards her. Sure enough i'll let this M die off slowly.

Originally Posted By: newman7977
Don't mind read these^^^. You are setting yourself up for disappointment.

I'm not jumping for joy either last week. I thought these were small positives and did not see it as WAS crumbs. Looks like a deeper pattern has shown itself.

I emailed the L this morning. Waiting for a response.


M35 XW34
D5 D4
M 6years T 10years
Bomb 5/2013
Joint Petition signed 6/2013
Moved out end of 8/2013
Court Hearing of Joint Petition 9/2013
D finalized in 3 months - no news yet