"Not sure if i'm right here but i do see a pattern. W will be nice to me if i don't talk about OM or ignore it when my Ds brought it up. It goes up to a point that she starts to calls me by my affectionate name a few times. She comes out naked after bath to simply show it up to me. Initiate talks. Helps me out. Asked me how she looks."
Don't mind read these^^^. You are setting yourself up for disappointment. I did the same mistake in my sitch thinking things were turning around, but these are just crumbs WAS' throw along the way. Think about this, are you ready to live in a M and get only crumbs?
"Three days ago, she's back venomous when i asked if she told OM about out D. She's back being friendly today after i ignore the fact that OM took them out for dinner last night. I'm irritated."
She will get "venomous" because you interrupted her A when you confronted her. She's friendly if you ignore her A because you are enabling her A, so she's good with that. So what would your M look like? Open M so that she's NOT venomous towards you? Like I said lose the fear. If its something you value, put your foot down.
Newman
me40; W43 M18; T~20 D18; S13 & S3 bomb 5/9/11 EA busted 4/30/12; 9/4/12; 4/29/13; 6/10/13 same OM
Separated 4/1/14
"Even a flicker of light will shine through darkness-12/25/2012"....better days ahead.
