Which is the truth?

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I can't stress to you enough how important GAL'ing is. I believe this is the one main thing that made my H see me in the old light he used to see me in. They start to second guess...question themselves...miss the woman be fell in love with. I've been where you are not once but a few times. I have felt that gut wrenching pain. Please believe me it does get better. I'm still working on myself...as my H just dropped bomb #2 in four years a few weekend ago. This time I handled it much better and gave him his space and GAL'd like nobody's business. There were still a few things I had to tweak and still have to as im not out of the line of fire het...but please listen to the veterans and what they tell you. I have made it through this twice. They really are right...and you will be ok. Keep your chin up:)