I think it is best for you to hear from someone who has been through this.

But, I am thinking a few things.

You dont want to say to her she isnt into physical touch again, right? Kinda putting that in her head, ya know?

Is there any kind of physical touch at all.

If not, can you begin to maybe touch her shoulder or arm in passing?

Get her used to your touch again.

And then gradually increase to move frequent touch and a hug or kiss or handholding.

I know you have been patient, C. But you dont want to force her before she is ready.

I guess it feels awkward for her because of OM. She may be afraid you will be thinking of that while ML.

Sorry I cant be of more help here.

Hopefully someone else can chime in.

So glad that things are otherwise going well for you.