Originally Posted By: chasingpavements

I think some of my friends think I am crazy for not taking more action with H, but I think that DB'ing is my best option right now, and that he would have been long gone if I hadn't started DBing.


I know my friends think I'm crazy for not kicking H to the curb. But if there's still a chance of saving my marriage I'll do what ever I can to do so. Mi happen to still think H is worth it, even if my friends don't. They don't have to live with the outcome and none of them are friends with H so there's not likely to e any interaction between them in the future if things do work out.

We all do what we have to.


Both 50
S14
M 16 yrs (his 3rd; my 1st)

ILYBINILWY - 24 Dec 2012
H moved out - 27 Jun 2013
Legally separated - 6 Sep 2013
Closing the door and changing the locks