wife hardends heart-2

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I'm sorry if this confuses everyone.
We have a nanny. She takes care of the kids during weekdays and that includes the nights. We also have a domestic help.
So basically, i'm the 'nanny' during weekends. W do not do much around the house.

MrBond excuse my ignorance. What should i put my foot down on? no more mr.nice guy? no more allowing W taking the kids out whenever OM invites?

Not sure if i'm right here but i do see a pattern. W will be nice to me if i don't talk about OM or ignore it when my Ds brought it up. It goes up to a point that she starts to calls me by my affectionate name a few times. She comes out naked after bath to simply show it up to me. Initiate talks. Helps me out. Asked me how she looks. That's the positives i'm talking about. Three days ago, she's back venomous when i asked if she told OM about out D. She's back being friendly today after i ignore the fact that OM took them out for dinner last night. I'm irritated.