wife hardends heart-2

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I'm confused here.
I spend more time with my Ds. I help out with D4's school work. I read them their books. I bathe them. I fed them. I even spend most weekend nights in their room. D3 wakes up often so i have to be there. I take them to the park alone. Started with the mall too. I play with them and my kids demand that I do, I just can't get away even if I wanted to. I'm learning to do all of this without W. Some of those are my 180.
W is somehow aping what I do and tried to squeeze in mommy time. W doesn't even do half of what I do.

I should not allow W taking the girls out whenever OM is involved? I dont even know when he's involved and she's not telling but I think it's weekly now. i can't keep asking what she does, who she goes out with. He's not allowed in the house and I reaffirmed that to W two nights ago and she went all crazy and venomous. She still see OM as close friend. I can't tell her to her face she's having an EA. Translation is a problem too.

The problem with my family goes back years. My kids haven't visited my parents since February before the bomb. W goes into this weird mode whenever my parents wants to visit two years back. I have to lie to them so W could feel better. Breaks my heart.

Lost_hope. I don't have to demand to see my kids. I haven't moved out yet. I'm there at home all the time. OM deeds is not respectable but I think he's not a monster.