Planet. Step in and demand to see your kids anytime you want. If you truly have 100% access then utilize it as much as possible. Children need both parents, which is why this S and D thing hurts them so much. Make it as least painful as possible. Also with your parents she can't demand that she be there during visits. That's leaving her too much power. From what you tell us she takes your kids around the OM without you. An average person would see that as a much bigger issue than the grandparents thing. Also how much do you know about this OM? Please make sure he's respectable enough to be around your kids.
Me 35 H 34 DS- newborn 8/13 T 8.5 M 7 H's EA - 10/11 INILWY 5/13 DBing 6/13 Don't know WTF to do 1/14
