Thanks Too Trusting! Your suggestions are very welcome and appreciated. They make sense. I guess I'm with my boys alone so much, I just don't even think of things to do. I'll work on that. Also, the "affair fog" explanations helps a great deal. You're right. My wife can't possibly be thinking clearly. This whole thing just doesn't seem real. Now that you mention it, she has dropped all responsibility with regard to the marriage and caring for the boys. I notice her hugging and kissing them more, but that's about it. She becomes easily bothered and frustrated with them. She is in a fantasy world. I'll keep that in the forefront of my mind and try not to take it personally. But, when will I know it's the right time to reveal to her that I know everyting about the affair?
Vince B M=10 yrs T=13 yrs M45 / H 44 2 Boys 5 & 8 D Day: 7/16/13
