you give my H alot of credit here- honestly- i feel bad to say it out loud- but i'm sure all he wants is me gone so he can have his private old life here-
Nero,
Look at it the other way, I am not giving him credit, I am optimistic that you are not the bane of his existence. You are not the cause of his chronic assholism, therefore how could you be the problem.
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i don't think i'm ever gonna swallow and get past the notion these two jerks have been commiserating about their star-crossed lover sitch for the past 30 yrs & lifetime- and now they LLLLOOOOOVE EACH OTHER SOOOOOO MUCH-
I'm still a little confused about this R they had, it was on going throughout your whole R, but only platonic "star crossed loves" an EA of sorts?
Do you feel (knowing what you know now) it has diminished what you had with H? My H has said some stupid stuff that makes me feel that way, especially when he says he should never have had a family, single guys have it so much better.
If you do, I can see how a good, honest woman would have an extremely hard time getting past that kind of betrayal. Not to mention the fact that you are still living it, as are many of us LBS here.
If they want the single life I say let them have it, but like I told H, you don't get me on the side, I'm not a fricken side dish. So GTFO! You, have it a little different, but you too hold your future, not HIM!
H is not changing anything about himself, well Nero is and that is what matters. You are strong and you are living.
<3 dm
The past can't be ahead of you in the future. You don't have to figure it all out, just pick a direction. What's next...I don't know but I can't wait!
