Hi DFE, Yep I'm still around smile My thread is now moved to the MLC section. I am doing fine, still in that limbo, and my H is still at home. I still feel so frustrated by everything going on :S

Maybe you can find a way to test how your H is feeling. Hopefully your mom can give you an idea after they visit. It must be hard. I hope you get some answers soon about everything. For me it is hard not knowing. I would also like to know either way with my H whether we are working on things or separating.


M: 8 yrs T:14
Twins:7 S:5
BD:'NLILWY': Feb/2013
Mar/Apr/May: MC
June: "living in limbo"
Sept 12: H moves out
Oct 20: reconciling
Jan-Feb 2014:MC
Feb 2014: separating, and H moved out.