Since no one is responding, I'll put in my two cents which you'll probably argue about anyway. But it seems like you're letting her cross over too many boundaries right now. She's cherry picking what she wants and what she doesn't and leaving you with the scraps.
If you don't start dictating what YOU want in life, she will continue to do that. AND she's building a nice, cozy love nest for her and the OM. That's what it seems like to me.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.
