"I think some of my friends think I am crazy for not taking more action with H, but I think that DB'ing is my best option right now, and that he would have been long gone if I hadn't started DBing."
I've gotten a lot of that. Although I've been surprised by some people who seem to be natural DBers (I have been good about not discussing details of our sitch, but people know we're separated). I actually sent my mom a couple of MWD's videos from YouTube and she said "I get it." My mom is great. :-)
