"If i start planning weekend dinner only with my kids, then it would be no mommy time."

She is more than welcome to join, her choice if mommy time gets affected. And you have a choice to get daddy time in with your kids.

To me it's too vague --"unrestricted visitation"...so what is that? Are you going to supplement this with a more specific visitation schedule?

me40; W43
M18; T~20
D18; S13 & S3
bomb 5/9/11
EA busted 4/30/12; 9/4/12; 4/29/13; 6/10/13 same OM

Separated 4/1/14

"Even a flicker of light will shine through darkness-12/25/2012"....better days ahead.