It's really ridiculous i need to accept the fact that OM and W plus the kids will have weekly dinner together plus maybe a night or two meetings on weekdays without the kids. I can't stop her from taking the kids. Act "as if"? It's what i'm doing now. correct? no?
I don't think MWD's "act as if" is to stretch it in this scenario. Taking the kids all week takes away the kids' access to their father. You see that right?
These are your children as well, start thinking equal rights. They need equal access to both parents not just one. Your W will be pissed get ready but,this is what's best for the kids. But of course under no circumstances you will handle this in front of the kids ok?
You didn't say if you did get a L. Can you still get one and amend these agreements? From what I can see here is that your W covered all the legal basis in her favor.
All these things you are complaining about--this is your sitch when the D is final because you gave her most of the rights.
There are some issues here planet, start looking for solutions. My first move would've been to consult a L and see if there's anything you can do to get this D agreement to balance out for both parties. Just see what the L say and go from there. Your next move will depend on what the L say.
Take care, Newman
me40; W43 M18; T~20 D18; S13 & S3 bomb 5/9/11 EA busted 4/30/12; 9/4/12; 4/29/13; 6/10/13 same OM
Separated 4/1/14
"Even a flicker of light will shine through darkness-12/25/2012"....better days ahead.
