It's really ridiculous i need to accept the fact that OM and W plus the kids will have weekly dinner together plus maybe a night or two meetings on weekdays without the kids. I can't stop her from taking the kids. Act "as if"? It's what i'm doing now. correct? no?
It's ridiculous that it's okay for OM to see your kids, but your family can't. I think it's a good time to take complete inventory of your situation and remedy any issues (like this one) that need to be remedied.
Focus on doing what's best for YOU and YOUR KIDS.
-PM
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