Still at Square One!!!

[DFE]

So I went out last night. Salsa Dancing. The kids told H yesterday that they were spending the night and my parents house. H asked me if I was going out and I said yes. So this morning he sent me a text saying "Good Morning. Hope you had a good time last night."

Chasingpavements I am glad you told me it's you. I have been looking for you. Hope all is going well with you. I will follow your sitch now that I know it's you. My friend keeps telling me to talk to him one last time but the rejection is so hard to face. I know as soon as I say something he will tell me what he always does. He has asked my mom to go out with him for lunch. I am waiting until they go out to feel him out. See where he is coming from then maybe talk to him.

We have to write up our separation agreement and I thought that was a good time to talk to him. I am doing lots of work on me. I am reading everything I can get my hands on. 5 love languages was eye opening. His love language is words of affirmation which I never ever used. I am now using it on him and I can tell he liked it. I'm not in a hurry for him to move back I just want to hear from him that he wants to date or try while we are separated. I need some motivation.