W did try to put in visitation hours in the agreement. She said she did not want me to forcibly visit the girls in the middle of the night. That's just crazy. I did not agree to this. Really don't know who she consulted.

Just to be clear, in Malaysia a 'joint petition divorce' generally takes 6 to 9 months to be completed. Right now, we are not officially divorced. We can be viewed as separated. Both parties are free to move out from the matrimonial home. We are waiting for the court hearing date after filing joint petition divorce which is usually within 6 months. It will take another 3 months to receive a divorce certificate the judge had granted the divorce.


M35 XW34
D5 D4
M 6years T 10years
Bomb 5/2013
Joint Petition signed 6/2013
Moved out end of 8/2013
Court Hearing of Joint Petition 9/2013
D finalized in 3 months - no news yet