Our sitch has been going on for over 3 years. Otherwise I think I could have held on longer. He also keeps going back to ow. Back in May is when the a was revealed.
WBW, I have days like that too where I am patient and others where I am done. I think what did it was that he keeps going back to ow and he is still on his roller coaster. If I knew that I only had months left I could hold on but it could be another couple of years. I have no idea how much longer I would be going through this and even though I feel like I have detached as much as you can with kids, it still takes a toll.
How long do you think the a was going on before it was confirmed? It hurts doesn't it to know they don't seem to care about us or their kids. All they care about it themselves. Although they justify it by saying we pushed them to this.
It still would be a while until the d would be final even though everything was already done once. We started d 2 years ago and stopped it so most of the paperwork just needs to be updated. If he would come to realize he's making a mistake before it is complete I would still try to work it out.
He seems to be wanting validation to see if what he is doing is right. He said no one is talking to him.
If it is meant to be then maybe something will happen. Until then I have to move forward.
M 48 H 50 M 25 T 27 D 20,18,15 6/11 H filed 3/12 H dropped 4/12 H moved out
