Detaching is the most difficult thing to do.
And you are right, it's not time the time to think about H nor M.

I wish you all the strength to pull through this.

M35 XW34
D5 D4
M 6years T 10years
Bomb 5/2013
Joint Petition signed 6/2013
Moved out end of 8/2013
Court Hearing of Joint Petition 9/2013
D finalized in 3 months - no news yet