wife hardends heart-2

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I believe that my kids should have access to their paternal grandparents despite W's emotions but I can't be breaking a promise. It's going to be difficult navigating through this. It's going to be early next year. My parents will be welcoming my kids for the lunar new year. After this, it's going to be regular visits. This is what I want.

Total hogwash. I had equal custody of my kids when I was separated and found that they need both parents equally as they both have something to contribute to their growth.

I don't wish to be an absent father. I will fix a schedule to spend time with them when/if D eventually happens.
As i am living in the same house right now, I spend every time i could with them. Trying to be the best dad I could. My kids is the only reason that i do not want to move despite W's emotional roller-coaster and the OM rubbing his face in. It's hard taking all this in. When push comes to shove, I will fight.