At least S13 is oblivious to the fact there is an OW in his dad's life. And it was almost funny to see the look on H's face last night when H was trying to get S13 to comment on how pretty our server was. S13 stated "you're not allowed to do that when you're married, even if you're temporarily separated". H looked like he was about to choke. It could be very interesting if/when S13 finds out that his dad had a girlfriend while married. It seems my son has a firm belief in being faithful.
Having and maintaining a relationship with OW is your H's choice. I know it's difficult and heart breaking. Pining on lost love makes it worse. I've always wondered how we could ever detach effectively. Nobody seems to have answer. Then it's up to us. We have to let go, no matter how painful it is. Just let go.
M35 XW34 D5 D4 M 6years T 10years Bomb 5/2013 Joint Petition signed 6/2013 Moved out end of 8/2013 Court Hearing of Joint Petition 9/2013 D finalized in 3 months - no news yet
