DBing European style, part 3

[MrBond]

Well that was very entertaining, although I doubt that you actually saved your M. It think you were trying to make some kind of point and you're still bitter about your W.

Just to clarify, my last comment to you was because of YOUR last comment.

"Thanks for all the support and kind words and everything everybody, but it's pretty pointless in my sitch to keep dwelling here and fooling myself that my hopes were anything other than completely f---ing misguided. "

Since you said that you were leaving, I didn't clarify. But just for the record, what I meant by you weren't DBing was that you hadn't detached yourself from your W at that point.

Now if you had asked for clarification, I would have given it to you, but it seemed like YOU gave up so I didn't give any.

The fact is that YOU gave up hope. Not us. I and the other posters don't get an ego trip when we try to help others. And our advice is that. Just advice. It is up to YOU to make the final decision. If something didn't work, look in the mirror rather than at others. It is easy to make insults like a coward rather than being brave and sharing what worked and didn't work. Everyone here (myself included) have gone through the pain of what you had and if you enjoy insulting those who have been in your shoes, then we know why your W left in the first place.

If you really did reconcile with your W, then I'll be the first one to congratulate you and I encourage you to share your success with others so that they can also learn what you have.

So you have a choice. You can accuse people who help others of things that aren't even true, or you can pay it forward yourself.

If you don't ever respond back, then good luck to you on your continued M efforts. For I can tell you that Piecing will be twice as hard as trying to get your spouse back. Ask anyone (not just the vets) who are going through that and you'll find out it's true.

Just a friendly bit of advice.