WH, I'm glad to read that you and your children are having a great weekend. You needed a brief period of calm and fun. Please listen to AJ and do not attempt to negotiate anything more about the settlement w/your h. Allow your lawyer to do his job. He's been there for you throughout all of this. He knows what he's up against and I bet he's seen this type of behavior before, i.e., most lawyers have.
I hope that your peace and quiet continue for a while. You needed this break to regroup. Enjoy your Sunday!
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.