I am very sorry for your loss. I hope you work it out so your X causes the least amount of disruption. Maybe attend visiting hours at a different time? Or ask them to schedule her to come in before or after the family is there. I'm sure the funeral home will work it out.
Aloha,
Wendy
Me 57 XH 58 Sons age 32 & 27 M:32 D final 9/12 Bought 10 Acres and Living the Dream!