Thanks Urworthy! So far so good:)
We actually made it through the move process and are doing well. We didn't have any major blowouts from he stress which was a great thing. We are just now settling in and all is good except one thing. Hopefully some of you who have been through this can give me some advice.
For the first time tonight sex got brought up again. It's been just over 2 months since we began the piecing process and haven't had sex yet. My W is not big in physical touch to begin with. Not big into kissing and foreplay which is very tough for me since my main Ll is physical touch. I'm not sure how to even begin getting there because its not like I can work my way up there since she isn't in big into physical touch. I even told this to her tonight.
Here's what happened:
We were out to dinner with a couple friend of ours, actually the couple W met through OM. We group text each other things a lot of times. When we got home the husband jokingly said, "enjoy the sexy time in the new place"
After a few minutes I actually turned to to wife and said, "when are we going to have sexy time. I really don't know how to even begin since you aren't that into physical touch"
She responded by saying, "I don't know. It's just really awkward."
Which I agreed it seems awkward as well. Why does it seem so awkward? Any advice on how to get through this? I feel like we just need to "pull the bandaid"
I have definitely been very patient about this and haven't even brought it up in a few weeks.


M 37 W 30
S 7
Together 10 years
Married 9 years
BD: 12/12/12(W filed same day)
I moved to apartment 1/11/13
W and S moved to MIL 1/11/13
Peicing: 6/3/13
Reconciled: 7/2013
BD2: 4/20/16
still working on it