Ok, I see. Like if W was really ditching the M there would be no reason to contact her H.

Yes, as if MLC isn't complicated enuf for the immediate family, adding in friends and relatives during recconex can be interesting.

I got a call yesterday from a first cousin of mine from the west coast that I haven't seen or talked to for 7 years. It gave me an opportunity to handle explaining some changes without blame and sounding/being comfortable with who we are right now.

It's certainly a never ending journey but very pleasant for me at this point smile


Me54/H47
'08 H is "done"
March '12 H moved out
Brink of D, December '12
2014 totally reconciled!
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"I firmly believe in the...absolute possibility of marriage renewal."
Jim Conway