Mm, that sounds like such a lovely day! As much as it hurts that she has some disconnect with you, she still obviously positively identifies with the family and even goes along on these outings. It's a good situation for now -- creating some happy memories for everyone.
I think you are on the right path! Keep up the good work
Me54/H47 '08 H is "done" March '12 H moved out Brink of D, December '12 2014 totally reconciled! ...... "I firmly believe in the...absolute possibility of marriage renewal." Jim Conway