Fy, Yes he is falling for the old distancer/pursuer game, isn't he? I really don't mean it as a game but it's and interesting dynamic. I'm not sure if he's chasing but it sure has sparked an interest in him.

That's my plan FY....standing for as long as my mind, body and spirit can. You and I share that philosophy. Being our new and improved wonderful selves smile with a DBing twist, while doing what's best for us!

As I just wrote to RL above here, if we don't put ourselves first then we'll be in no state of mind to either help our MLCers should they chose to come back to us or if we have to, live our lives without them. It's best to have both of those plans thought out and ready to implement sooner rather than later while we're relatively stable and rational.

I was reading on rH's old threads where one of the DB coaches told her that she should be ecstatic that her h was talking about D and never coming back. It seems that they want to know that they have the freedom to say it out loud and that they are in control of their future? It makes my head hurt to even think about so I'm back to thinking of myself now and where I will be in a month, 6 months and a year from now. Visualize and execute! LOL

The last time I read your thread, your wife was coming along quite well in her communications with you. I'm going over there now to see what's going on in your life today!

Bustin' on here, walkin' right next to you

Me:57H:62
M:34T:35
2S,2D (grown nlah)
BD:09/2012 visits M ow
EA/PA?:10/2012
H moves out 06/2013

"Do not let the behavior of others destroy your inner peace." -Dalai Lama