Thank you for the words sandi2. I get what you are saying. I just feel that the issue without an apology makes any thought of us in comparison with the other negative.
What can I be? I don't know. I'm just being me right now and working through things the best that I can. You are right about the love thing, she loves the OM so I'm screwed right now as she is in love with him. So where does that leave me? I should just sit and wait? Be patient? Do women change their emotional state? Do you think with what you have read in the thread with zero contact and being so far removed that she would contact me? If so it seems it would only be if she broke up with the OM. Is that correct? If it is, you are saying the only thing I can be is a fall back for her? Second place?
If that were to happen that makes things very difficult. Would that mean she doesn't really respect me?
together 7+yrs Married 3 Me 33 W 33 no kids BD 9/12 MC 9/12 W leaves MC 10/12 W moves out 11/12 Divorce 2/13 W moves 5/13 NC 05/13 D final 8/13
