T, I think that MC session is a great sign and I really do hope your W is serious about trying. But keep in mind that she told the MC she's "one toe in" which is also 9 toes out, so she's really not invested in reconciliation yet. Not sure if you've read my whole sitch, but after several months of S my W signed us up for RetroV. I was shocked! Up until then there had been no indication that she wanted to reconcile. The weekend went great, it seemed like she really broke down some barriers and we were connecting and communicating like never before. Then a couple of weeks later she put the walls right back up again and was back to "I don't want to try" and that's the way it's been ever since. So celebrate it as a baby step, but drop the expectations and keep up with your DB'ing!
