I agree LBH I'm beginning to feel like I'm banging my head against a wall with you 2old. You're getting all these good ideas and posts and all you answer us back with is what your W may think about this and that and why she won't answer you etc. As LBH says, you need to focus on yourself and stop worrying about your W. The time will come when you will need to worry about your W, but for now and for your own well being start focusing on yourself I hope I'm not sounding too harsh because the last thing I want to do is to upset someone. I hope you will at least take on board some of the things that the posters have been saying.
H47 me48 T22 M21 S20 - Got high functioning autism 3/2000 H admits to OW and moves out to live with her 11/2000 H moves back home 2/4/13 H moves out H tells me he wants D 6/13, but now he can't afford to!
I'm beginning to feel like I'm banging my head against a wall with you 2old. You're getting all these good ideas and posts and all you answer us back with is what your W may think about this and that and why she won't answer you etc. As LBH says, you need to focus on yourself and stop worrying about your W. The time will come when you will need to worry about your W, but for now and for your own well being start focusing on yourself 
