Ohio...Really Nero! Chicago! YOur soo funny! I love reading your posts. I gotta love my Nero!
Ok, your not going to end up behind DD in Fl. He's not trying to devastate your life style as far as how you live. He removed himself, he has no intentions of uprooting you.
You and I have these crazy imaginations believing they were off drinking champaign by the pool while reciting love sonnets to OW. Now you see that he is an ass to everyone, who would you think he does a 180 for her, he doesn't.
My H over the last few weeks has been saying stuff like, it's not fun anymore w EA and crowd, I do admit there was some fantasy stuff about it and the beer and pot did enhance that, my anger is not the same, and several times now he has been saying he wants to stop talking to her, he's says it more often and within shorter times each time.
Your guy doesn't talk so Nero, read him, sit back and listen to some of the stuff he has said again, and watch him, let his actions speak. He said he would never put you out, he wants you around, helps your mom, and so far has not left for OW, maybe your giving him a reason not to run over there, cause your so great and all!
The past can't be ahead of you in the future. You don't have to figure it all out, just pick a direction. What's next...I don't know but I can't wait!