Thanks Cadet, Feel free to comment on anything you see I'm writing. Im beginning to feel that if she controls the contact it now may be a loooong time before I hear from her again. But, as you are saying its out of my control...And no, she wont be giving me a card that much I know. I understand I need to disengage and I feel I am working towards that. As long as I understand she seems perfectly happy to be having her son pay her condo living and enjoying her close knit family where she is at doesn't fair well for any kind of reconciliation even in the looong run. So quiet I shall remain and try to move on the best I can. Its probably a good thing she is 900 miles away.
