Such a long time since I posted. I have been reading though! All of your threads. RosaLinda, Nero, mizjjd, uRworthy, Raine and you other great DBers. And of course the comments made by those further along this road.
My now ExW never gave me any clear awnsers that I could understand. It completely destroyed me. But I wanted awnsers and found this site. Now... It all makes sense. The most important lesson I have learned has been that it is not about me. Every relationship has work to do but nothing, nobody deserved this!
Sorry to say that I have given up. And its a good thing! I have given up trying to reach her. Kind of funny now that I think about it... It took a lookg time and alot of conversations with her to finally quit. Guess its human nature to communicate. She doesnt understand herself so why should she even try to understand me!
My only hope is that she can find her way back to herself. She was such a beautiful lady!
