The squirrel is something that I have written I think, or at least rewritten from what I remember.
Goes something like this.
Have you ever tried to feed a squirrel? The best way is to hold out your hand with the food and be perfectly STILL. Any sudden movements towards her or away from her will scare her away and send her scurrying away. Shouting at the squirrel and telling them to come get the food wont work either. Patience and TIME is the only way you will ever get the squirrel to eat out of your hand.
Originally Posted By: 2old
Well, I really appreciate the info I am getting just to let everyone know. It helps. Now another tough date is fast approaching on the 20th of this month. Yup, our 6th anniversary but 12 years together. Im guessing I dont acknowledge this date to her whatsoever correct? I cant even imagine what I could say or do.I continue to remail silent to her although I'm sure she received her mail today. I had to send it to her couldn't hold it back from her. That wouldn't of been right. Only her mail was sent and this time I did not email her with a heads up as I have done in the previous. Thoughts?
I think this is what you wanted me to comment on?
I would not acknowledge the anniversary. It is more pursuit.
The point of all this is that you want her to control the contact and to pursue YOU. If she was to give you a card then it would be fine to acknowedge or reciprocate but you dont want to scare the squirrel, you want it to come to you.
