I actually did LRT from the start. I emailed MWD and told her I could not afford counseling, gave her my story and said "Can you please tell me if I should LRT or not because I am very confused" Someone (MWD?) emailed back almost immediately (very impressive) and told me that because my H had told me he wanted a D and was completely removed from me, I should absolutely LRT. Hope that helps you.
I am sure it is harder for you to LRT or DB in any way with your H out of town for work. I will have to read your story. Going away early tomorrow-Thursday but I will read it as soon as I can.
Good luck to you! I will check out that site, too. Thanks!
M 46 H 44 D 12 S 8 M 9 T 11 BD 2/15/13 "Makes sense to stay together" 5/12/13 Agree we are 'healing' 7/13 Definitely Piecing 9/13
