Thanks everyone. I am going to ask her to go to a counseling session with me. I am going to ASK HER to consider going to counseling at least to try and rebuild our friendship and to let go of the pain and resentment and to forgive.
I may also say I ASK HER to go to see if she is forcing herself to not love me with distractions and such. I may also ASK HER to go to see if there is any possibility she would open her heart and allow me to love her again and see if she could love me again. These two requests may be more of a longer term goal and request. Any thoughts and opinions here?
I hope she is willing to go at least for the first two reasons above. I honestly think we need to go at least to rebuild our friendship and for her to let go of the pain. She seems to be somewhat responsive to considering things when I ask her to think about them.
May still be too early to tell what has really worked since I'm sure she is still thinking through everything we had talked about. A lot to think over.
