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Stand up to her and let her be crazy on her new H. The beauty of being D'd from her is that now you can just hang up on her.


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She's trying to convince herself - the lady doth protest too much, in my opinion.


I've actually thought that she has been trying to convince herself of a lot of things since this whole mess started. If you tell yourself something enough don't you start to believe it? Then maybe she really does believe that I was so terrible.

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I'd like to know, why do you answer her calls? Your children are all grown. Is there some other reason anything she'd have to tell you would be so urgent that you couldn't wait for voice mail?


Actually, I didn't answer it. She left a voicemail: "please call me. it is important."

She then sent a text: "check your voicemail. I have something important for you."

So.....

I called her. She had (wrong) info about my mother who has been sick. She supposedly heard from my brother's XW that mom was going to hospice. Not true at all.

Tad


Currently:
M 57 XW 58
Sons 39,34,32,30

The Sitch:
Married 26 years
EA w/ OM 9/10
Bomb 10/10 (5 weeks after 25th anniversary)
Sep 12/10
She wants D 1/11
W files 5/11
D final 10/11
XW marries OM 6/13