"I signed away the house to W in our D agreements. It's binding. Yes I'm still paying the mortgage. W pays for everything else."

^^^well this is done...personally I wouldn't have agreed to this.

"She's restricting the malls I could take the kids. Those are the safer ones. She don't think I could care for them but I've done it before without her. I don't doubt myself.
There are places like swimming pools I would love to take my kids to. I can't do it alone but she won't allow my family to help. She has issues with my family which is one the reasons for D. I would want her to help but she would not want to be seen or be with me."

^^^can you expand more on this? She puts restrictions on where you take your kids? This to me is a lot of controlling behavior on her part. Is that precisely it? Controlling on her part? Or is there a reason that made her think that way. Have you put your kids in danger before? What do you mean you can't do it alone? Because of your kids' age? You know you can change you and in return you can change the dynamics of this relationship.

What is your next course of action? I see in your sig the D will be final in 6-9 months. Sorry if you've posted it before. What is the D agreement re the kids?

me40; W43
M18; T~20
D18; S13 & S3
bomb 5/9/11
EA busted 4/30/12; 9/4/12; 4/29/13; 6/10/13 same OM

Separated 4/1/14

"Even a flicker of light will shine through darkness-12/25/2012"....better days ahead.