She has said numerous times that she is not the bad guy here. Everytime we do talk, I have to hear that she KNOWS she made the right choice and she has to give me a reason why she did what she did. The funny thing is, it is almost a different reason every time.
She's trying to convince herself - the lady doth protest too much, in my opinion.
As for the phone conversations - don't have them! Don't answer your cell phone when you see it's her. Then text her back if it's important. I eventually trained my ex to communicate with me only through text and email. If I accidentally answered the phone, and he started spewing, I would magically hit a dead zone and the call would drop out
