You're doing well and I feel sure she'll break her silence with you soon You're correct in assuming that you don't acknowledge your anniversary at all with her. My H left me 9 days before our wedding anniversary (just done some quick counting on my fingers there, lol). I didn't acknowledge our anniversary at all. I treated it as if it was just another day. In fact it was MIL who reminded me. She sent me some money the day before and told me to spend it on myself At first I was like - "what's this money for?" then I remembered, lol. Arrange to see a friend on that day or night. Have you joined any clubs since she left? I've continued with being on the carnival committee, though I couldn't do much as I had college work to do this year. It was good to be involved with something though and the night of our anniversary I had a sub committee meeting at my house. Have you got any resident committees you can join? I'd like to hear more about your GALs or plans for the future as so far you've only mentioned about your wife. What are you up to this weekend? I've mentioned above what I'm up to, busy as usual!, lol. I've not got a lot on tomorrow so I'll carry on with the house cleaning and tidying. Buy yourself another self help book to read I'm like a sponge at the moment, taking everything in Can anyone out there recommend a book for 2old? It'll need to be a book about self development at the moment I think. If you can't afford to buy a book, then do a search on the internet for self development and go through the list There's some great resources out there I do think maybe you should email her and say that you think that it'll be a lot quicker if she redirects her mail to her own house as you've not got time to do this all the time. What does anyone else think about this? Also is the mail you are sending important? If it's just junk mail then return to sender
H47 me48 T22 M21 S20 - Got high functioning autism 3/2000 H admits to OW and moves out to live with her 11/2000 H moves back home 2/4/13 H moves out H tells me he wants D 6/13, but now he can't afford to!
You're correct in assuming that you don't acknowledge your anniversary at all with her. My H left me 9 days before our wedding anniversary (just done some quick counting on my fingers there, lol). I didn't acknowledge our anniversary at all. I treated it as if it was just another day. In fact it was MIL who reminded me. She sent me some money the day before and told me to spend it on myself 
