labug, you are really making me think ;-)

Originally Posted By: labug
I'm going to steal you know who's line: From this day forward.

I know you're working on it, just want to give you some encouragement in what must be such a difficult time.

Can you continue to be in a R with him if he can't tell you those things you need to hear?
I don't know. I'm hoping that I'm able to communicate my needs better since I'm barely learning to do it in a healthy constructive way

Can you accept that the R was "that bad" for him?
if it was all that bad then he was such a great actor. I would be worried of the present. he seems happy now, how do I know he's not faking it?

Love you, beautiful Vero! love you too! can't wait to see you again!


M 42 H 39
T10 (-2yrs separation)
S8 D5
DD 7/30/11 (EA&PA)
Reconciled 6/2013
Separation in works 1/2017