WOW... U must be reeling... not knowing which way is up or down.
BREATHE!!
At what point were you unsure of your standing? Was it BEFORE or after you put a date on him? What made you reach your limit?
I'd be more confused than ever, if in your shoes.
I guess time will tell.... is he living wtih you and kids?
M:46 H:49 T:20yrs myD:22 H distant summer/12 H sleeping in b'ment: Nov/12 BD: Dec 2/12 asked me begin to move end of Jan/13 moved Jan 7/13 (left my stuff) "agreed" to "working on r" Mar 3/13(lipservice!)