Hi Wonka, no there has not been any communication latterly, after he signed up on the dating site. You are right about me gathering up my energies. How did you know? I’m taking my time here trying to define what I want to do next. I’ve been feeling pretty good here, except for today. My friends left on vacation today and I woke up feeling a bit down. I will be driving home tomorrow and it might be why I feel a bit anxious. I also feel that I need to finally accept the reality that my H is not interested in me anymore and no amount of time apart is working for my benefit.


M:50
H:52
S28 (my S from previous marriage)
M:17 + 3
BD: 06/12
S: 06/12 - H works in another state