THANKS A LOT FOR THE POST. I don't think I have much to lose. I do need to clarify all of my actions so she knows I HAVE been working on our R, but trying to respect her words in wanting some space because it is hard for her to see me. The whole dog comment really threw me off, I thought it was obvious I loved her, but this is more of the same for me. Assuming she knows I love her.
She has NEVER said don't pursue. She intially said right after the bomb she was uncomfortable with me around her business, like she wants to show everyone she can do it on her own. After the dog comment, I told her I wasn't coming around because I was trying to listen to her, and that wasn't what I was doing before. She claims to have never said don't come around. Forgetful? Mind games? Or she never really meant it so she doesn't remember?
I do need to phrase it in a no pressure type of way. Still show consistent love and care even if she wants to file. Then hope she will give us a chance before the paperwork is final.
Pursuing is one thing I haven't tried yet. The major thing still. That is also what got her to reconsider the last time. When she saw how much I DO LOVE HER, and HOW MUCH she means to me. Does this make sense? Totally different from the norm, but this is totally different for me.
