Okay, so all of those things she said make no sense now. Just tell her that you're sorry that she feels that way and that she's in a new R, so should be happy. Then end the conversation.
You are right MrBond. She is nuts and I DO have to start standing up for myself. She still has not responded to my text asking her who the informant was. As I've said, she won't either because there wasn't one and there was nothing to "inform" her about. I was ALWAYS faithful to her.
Just a few quick updates:
Mom - She is home after a week in the hospital. She was there to help with nutrition because she hasn't been eating. Thanks to some on this board, I mentioned marijuana to her s few times and she is now on it. Thank you! She isn't smoking it, but they are giving it to her in pill form. I hope it helps.
Me - I am doing okay. I am sort of in a funk though. One day, I want to date and meet someone nice. Other days, I want nothing to do with it. There are also days where I just don't give a flying f*ck and others where I am still angry with her. I sometimes wish that the anger would go away, but I've also had others tell me that it is good for me. Should I still be angry from time to time? Still?
XW - She has been married for about 6 weeks. She has contacted me more since she has been married than she did before. WTF? She also can't seem to keep her nose out of my family's business. I've also realized lately what a mess she really is. She has said numerous times that she is not the bad guy here. Everytime we do talk, I have to hear that she KNOWS she made the right choice and she has to give me a reason why she did what she did. The funny thing is, it is almost a different reason every time. Hell, when she first left, it was because I never took her to the right grocery store. Then, it became because she was unhappy for 5, 10, 12 or 15 years depending on her mood. Now, it is because I supposedly cheated on her.
S18 - He informed me a few nights ago that he doesn't like to go to his mother's house. I told him that he is 18 and he can do whatever he wants. He is no longer "obligated" by the courts to visit her. I told him if he wants to, that's fine, but he shouldn't feel like he has to.
Basically, that is all. Just wanted to give everyone a quick update.
Tad
Currently: M 56 XW 57 Sons 38,33,31,29
The Sitch: Married 26 years EA w/ OM 9/10 Bomb 10/10 (5 weeks after 25th anniversary) Sep 12/10 She wants D 1/11 W files 5/11 D final 10/11 XW marries OM 6/13
