Hi Star, sorry you find yourself here, you'll get a lot of great advice and support here though.

My sitch is very, VERY similar to yours. From me being an artsy girl, to H making more money then all of a sudden announcing he was "unhappy"...etc..etc..etc..

It's great you decided to go to school, that's a big step you've made in a short time.

Are there any other complaints your H had about the marriage that you could do 180's on that will be beneficial for you as an individual first and secondly for the marriage if R was to happen?

Keep your thoughts on positive things!


me: 30 H:30
tgthr:7 m:4
no kids
5 counseling sessions initiated by H as a LR: Oct 2012
long distance marriage b/c of work since Nov 2012
official BD: July 2013
nothing filed
1/1/14 I dropped the rope