Thanks Newman.
You are right about enforcing boundaries.
I spoke to W later. First thing I asked if OM knew about our D. She told him and all this while I thought she would be tight lipped like she always were. Her sister knew too. No wonder OM has become brazen. Anyway, I said I refuse to accept his behaviour. Even if this thing happened to others, it's still not acceptable. I will not welcome him to my house but W reminded me about signing the house away to her. Right. It's hers now.
Later the discussion becomes ugly. She's irritated and accusatory. She refuses to believe all the truths I said and did after the bomb. She brought those up and i just corrected if they are wrong. mostly kept quiet. Believe it or not, even technology is against me. She checked my whereabouts using her mobile after I said I was going home to my parents. This happened a while ago. But her mobile returned a different location. Bloody hell. She didn't believe me when I said I told my parents about the D. She continues to tear up my mother.
OM has and will continue to pursue. W will continue to deny and maintain that they were just friends. Even after she told me about his 'innocent efforts' which to me and probably everyone else is 'pursuing', she refuses to acknowledge it and instead defended him. Wow how things change. She's a WAS.
I guess the positives she's shown me earlier were just false ones. I'm not sure though. After tonight, back to square one. She's pretty pissed.


M35 XW34
D5 D4
M 6years T 10years
Bomb 5/2013
Joint Petition signed 6/2013
Moved out end of 8/2013
Court Hearing of Joint Petition 9/2013
D finalized in 3 months - no news yet